ALIGN: Stop Doing Things That Don’t Match the Life You Say You Want
Ever feel like your life looks great on paper but still feels kind of… meh? You’ve got the job, the house, the responsibilities, all the things adulting promised would make you happy, yet somehow, something’s still missing.
That, my friend, is a sign you’re out of alignment.
Alignment isn’t about perfection, it’s about peace. It’s what happens when your actions match your values, your priorities reflect your purpose, and your life actually starts feeling like yours again (instead of like a group project you didn’t sign up for).
The Drift Happens Quietly
It never starts with a dramatic life crisis. Oh no, it’s sneakier than that.
It starts with one “yes” when you meant “no.”
Then another.
And another.
You ignore your gut because it’s “just easier” to go along. You chase goals that look impressive but feel like a slow emotional drain. You fill your schedule with things that look good on Instagram but do nothing for your soul.
Before you know it, you’re living a version of your life that would make a great LinkedIn post… but a lousy reality show.
The good news? You can course-correct anytime. No need for a midlife crisis, spontaneous haircut, or impulsive trip to Bali (though, if you do go, take me with you).
Signs You’re Out of Alignment
Let’s call it what it is: your inner GPS is screaming “Recalculating!”
You dread the start of your day (and your coffee is doing all the heavy lifting).
You’re constantly busy but never fulfilled.
You feel disconnected from people who once fueled you, or worse, you avoid them because they remind you of the “old you.”
You’re stuck in a loop of “shoulds” instead of “wants.”
If any of those hit a little too close to home, don’t panic. It’s not a failure, it’s feedback. Time to pause, reassess, and realign.
How to Get Back in Alignment
Revisit Your Values
What truly matters to you right now, in this season of life?
Not what mattered five years ago. Not what your mom or your boss thinks should matter. You.
It’s normal for priorities to evolve. You’re not inconsistent...you’re growing.
Audit Your Daily Actions
Do your habits reflect your priorities, or are they just survival tactics?
If family is important but work always wins, it’s time to rebalance.
If health matters but sleep is optional, it’s time to reevaluate.
If “me time” sounds like a luxury spa package instead of a basic human need… we’ve got work to do.
Reconnect With What Fuels You
Who or what genuinely lights you up? Maybe it’s a friend who makes you belly laugh, a hobby you dropped years ago, or a morning ritual that used to set the tone for your day.
Whatever it is, schedule it like it’s a dentist appointment (except way more fun). Because joy doesn’t just “happen,” you have to make room for it.
Release What’s No Longer Yours to Carry
This one’s tough.
Old expectations, outdated roles, and relationships that drain more than they give, they don’t always fit the version of you you’re becoming.
Let them go with gratitude, not guilt. Think of it as spring cleaning for your soul.
Final Word
Alignment feels like that deep exhale you didn’t realize you were holding.
When you start living in line with what matters most, life stops feeling like an uphill battle and starts flowing naturally, peacefully, and (mostly) drama-free.
Download your FREE BALANCE Starter Guide to uncover what truly fuels you and start aligning your actions with your purpose. Because when your life finally fits, you stop chasing peace… and start living it.
